All You Need Is Love

Rossi AlexanderUncategorized0 Comments

But what does this actually mean in regards to a long and happy marriage? Love is so many things, it is obviously that flush of romantic desire, the need to be with your chosen one all the time, to study the features that blow you away and see that desire reflected back to you, in their eyes. But it is also so much more… It is thinking about what the other wants and putting their needs on an equal level of importance as  your own. Really feeling that their happiness is a priority in your daily life and showing it in your actions.

Susanne Forbes Marriage Celebrant Gold Coast

Susanne Forbes Marriage Celebrant Gold Coast

Having your partner’s back is important, making them feel that you will support them, not judge them, even when you don’t agree with them. This is being a friend and they should be your best friend. Would you say to your best friend something that you may say to your husband or wife in a moment of anger, probably not. So if you marry your best friend, you should always keep that in mind and think before you speak.

Another thing that best friends do is have a ball together, it’s not all about work and achieving your goals, although that in itself is also important. We must have time to laugh together, be silly together, dance, sing, or just be quiet together. The balance is found in making your time together count and your time apart count for you as individuals. Don’t begrudge that time apart, because when your partner is fulfilling their interests, working, or spending time with other friends, this is what keeps them the person that you actually fell in love with.

Susanne Forbes Marriage Celebrant Gold Coast

Susanne Forbes Marriage Celebrant Gold Coast

Enjoy your differences, wouldn’t it be boring if we were all the same, if we had the same feelings on all matters and agreed all the time, yes easy, but boring. Listen to your partner’s point of view, have empathy, you may even find that occasionally they make more sense than you! Affection is very important, have you ever seen an older couple, holding hands as they walk along the beach, if you have, I bet you said AWHHH. If complete strangers can give you that soft gooey feeling, then how will you make your partner feel, if you demonstrate your affection towards them every day. The answer to that is, wonderful, wanted, important.

Love is a very broad term, it encompasses many things, physical attraction, equality, consideration, friendship, loyalty, playfulness, support, understanding, affection, comradeship, it is all these things and more. So, yes, if love is all these things, love really is all you need, for the basis on which to build your long and happy marriage.

Susanne Forbes Marriage Celebrant Sunshine Coast QLD

Susanne Forbes Marriage Celebrant Sunshine Coast QLD

 

“Hello, I’m Susie, and i am lucky enough to live on the beautiful Sunshine Coast, Queensland and conduct weddings here and on the Gold Coast.  I promise you, that you will have my Total Devotion to creating a unique ceremony for you and my full attention on your big day.”

Susanne Forbes – Marriage Celebrant QLD Sunshine Coast & Gold Coast

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